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If you've decided the time is right to get pregnant, you've likely already begun emotionally preparing yourself for a lifelong commitment to your child. But before you try to conceive, take time to ensure that your body is equally well prepared for the task ahead.

 



 

The preconception visit: An important first step

Begin your preparations for pregnancy by scheduling a preconception appointment with your doctor, your nurse-midwife or another medical doctor. This allows him or her to assess your overall health and helps you map out lifestyle changes that may improve your chances for a healthy pregnancy and baby. This visit also gives you and your partner a chance to ask questions and discuss any concerns you may have.

A preconception checkup typically includes a complete physical examination. You have blood tests to check your immunity to infections — such as chickenpox (varicella) and German measles (rubella) — that can cause serious birth defects or illness in your baby. If you aren't immune to these infections, your doctor may vaccinate you. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends that after being vaccinated you wait at least one month before trying to get pregnant.

Also be prepared to talk with your doctor about:

Current and past health issues. If you have an ongoing medical condition such as diabetes, asthma or high blood pressure, it's best to have it under control before you get pregnant. This reduces the risks for both you and your baby. You and your doctor can determine what changes, if any, are necessary to bring your condition under control before you attempt to become pregnant. Even if you've had no problem maintaining your health for some time, you may require special care during pregnancy. A growing baby can put new demands on your body.

Medications. Some prescription, over-the-counter and herbal medications can harm a growing baby. Tell your doctor about all the medications, herbs or supplements you're taking. He or she may recommend you stop taking certain medications or change doses before you become pregnant.

Family history. Some health conditions, such as diabetes, high blood pressure and seizure disorders, tend to run in families. If a close relative has a certain condition, you or your baby could be at greater risk of having it. To assess your risk, your doctor asks you and your partner a number of questions about your family medical history.

Certain medical conditions are genetic disorders, meaning that they're passed from parent to child through DNA. Examples include sickle cell anemia, cystic fibrosis and Duchenne muscular dystrophy. Even if you don't have the disorder yourself, you may carry the defect in your genes and can pass it along to your baby.

Your ethnicity or family history can affect the risk of passing on a genetic disorder. If it's a concern, your doctor may refer you to a genetic counselor — a health care professional trained to assess the risk of inherited disorders. For some conditions, genetic screening can provide important information about the risk of disease in a child. If you or your partner is of Ashkenazi Jewish heritage, for example, you may benefit from screening for Tay-Sachs, Canavan and Gaucher diseases. If you're African-American, consider screening for sickle cell anemia. If you're of Asian descent, you may want to think about screening for alpha-thalassemia. If you're of European descent, consider screening for cystic fibrosis.

Age. If you're age 35 or older, you're at increased risk of fertility problems, miscarriage and certain chromosomal disorders in your child, such as Down syndrome. Some pregnancy-related problems, such as high blood pressure and gestational diabetes, also occur more frequently among mothers who are age 35 and older. Discuss these risks with your doctor and develop a plan for avoiding complications.

Previous pregnancies. Your doctor may ask you about previous pregnancies, including any problems you might have had. This discussion is especially important if a prior pregnancy was complicated by high blood pressure or diabetes or if you had premature labor, if you had a preterm birth or if your baby was born with a birth defect. In some cases, your doctor can help you take preventive steps that increase the likelihood that future pregnancies will be healthy. At the very least, the discussion allows you to air any of your existing concerns or fears.

Adopt a healthy lifestyle

Preparing for pregnancy is an excellent reason to improve your health. To give your future baby the best possible start in life:

Don't smoke. Smoking decreases a woman's chance of conceiving and can reduce a man's sperm count. Women who smoke during pregnancy tend to have babies with lower birth weights than nonsmokers, and these babies may have developmental problems. Their babies are also three times as likely to die from sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) as are the babies of nonsmokers. In addition, smokers have a higher incidence of tubal (ectopic) pregnancy and stillbirths.

It's very important that both of you stop smoking. Regular exposure to secondhand smoke may reduce fetal growth and therefore increase your chances of having a low-birth-weight baby. At birth, low-birth-weight babies are more likely to have low blood sugar (hypoglycemia) and trouble maintaining their body temperature (hypothermia). Low birth weight also increases a baby's risk of chronic disabilities, such as cerebral palsy, mental retardation and learning problems.

Smoking is an addiction and can be difficult to stop. If you're ready to stop, ask your doctor for help. This is especially important if you're interested in using products such as nicotine patches or gum. Your doctor will be eager to help you stop smoking anytime, but there are more tools available before you get pregnant.

Avoid alcohol. No level of alcohol consumption has been proven safe during pregnancy. In fact, prenatal alcohol exposure can cause birth defects in the early weeks of your pregnancy, before you even know you're carrying a child. Drinking alcohol may also decrease a woman's ability to conceive and increase the risk of miscarriage.

In the most extreme cases, excessive drinking during pregnancy results in fetal alcohol syndrome. Babies born with this condition can have severe long-term problems including mental retardation, learning disabilities and behavioral problems.

It's important for men to resolve any problem drinking before pregnancy begins. There's increasing evidence that heavy drinking can lead to low sperm counts. But more importantly, your baby's safety, security and happiness require that you and your partner are free of alcohol problems.

Eat a healthy diet based on a variety of foods. All of your growing baby's nutritional requirements come from you. If you're eating too few calories or too few nutrients, cell development may be less than ideal and your baby may be underweight at birth, increasing his or her risk of short- and long-term health problems.

If your diet is lacking in iron, calcium, folic acid or other essential vitamins and nutrients or you often skip meals, make some changes now. Reduce your intake of foods with little nutritional value, artificial sweeteners and caffeine. Drinking more than two caffeinated beverages a day, in fact, may make it more difficult for you to get pregnant. Opt instead for protein-rich foods, fruits, vegetables, whole grains and dairy products. If you're overweight and want to shed some pounds, do so before you become pregnant. Pregnancy isn't the time to start a weight-reduction diet.

Before trying to conceive, begin taking a daily vitamin that contains at least 400 micrograms of folic acid. Studies show that folic acid in this quantity offers significant protection against neural tube birth defects, such as incomplete closure of the spine (spina bifida) or a partially or completely missing brain (anencephaly). If you begin taking folic acid after you find out you're pregnant, the protection may not come soon enough. Neural tube defects occur in the first four weeks of pregnancy, before you may realize you're pregnant.

Exercise. Moderate exercise can increase your fitness, reduce stress and help prevent health problems, such as heart disease and high blood pressure. And if you get in the habit of exercising now, you're more likely to enjoy its benefits during pregnancy. Many women find that exercise eases the constipation, backaches, fatigue and varicose veins common with pregnancy.

If you're not used to exercising, work with your doctor to develop a plan that's right for you.

Trying to conceive

Once you've prepared your body to provide a baby-friendly environment, you're ready to begin the pursuit of pregnancy. The first step: Stop using birth control. If you've been using birth control pills, it may take several months for your menstrual periods to return to a regular pattern. If you use injectable contraception, such as Depo-Provera, this delay is quite probable. Until regular periods begin, it's more difficult to pinpoint when ovulation — the time in which your ovaries release an egg into your fallopian tubes — occurs or to estimate a due date if you do become pregnant. If conception occurs before your regular menstrual period have started again, your doctor should use ultrasound to establish the dating of the pregnancy.

In order for you to become pregnant, you and your partner must have sexual intercourse within three days (72 hours) of the egg entering the fallopian tube. Your partner's sperm can fertilize your egg hours after ejaculation, but your egg is fertile for only a very brief period of time. Your best chance of becoming pregnant is generally 12 to 14 days before your next menstrual period is due.

Between 80 percent and 90 percent of couples who are trying to conceive become pregnant within a year. But about 10 percent to 20 percent of couples won't. If you're unable to become pregnant after a year of unprotected intercourse, you, your partner or both of you may have a fertility problem. Your gynecologist, your partner's urologist or your family doctor may be able to help. In some cases, your doctor may recommend a specialist or clinic that treats infertility problems.

Preconception planning: A smart choice

In pregnancy, as in life, some things are out of your control. But you can reduce the risk of complications — both for you and for your future baby. Seek preconception care from your doctor and make healthy lifestyle changes. By doing so, you're one step closer to your ultimate goal — delivering a healthy baby.

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